Transitioning to only one digital to-do list

I mentioned in this post that I had been using both trello and asana. This has, essentially, doubled my work in maintaining my to-do lists. I started using trello first, and it was a good place to think through long-term goals and how to break that up into smaller pieces so that I could make progress and not feel overwhelmed. But, I had to remember to update it, I had to migrate individual to-dos to my other lists. It has become a pain. At first, it was that I didn’t really get to know all of the features. I have since learned how to watch tasks and the web interface has updated so that there is a home screen that has your due-soon tasks listed. This is a crucial element for me, but the app on my phone isn’t structured that way. So, I have decided to transition all of my long term to-do lists into Asana, the other app I have been using. I always feel bad when I stop using an app because I know people that build apps (especially ones with free features and paid features) work very hard and I feel like I’m abandoning them. Perhaps I shouldn’t get so emotionally invested in my technology. But, right now, Asana has the set of features that I need and it is set up in a way that is intuitive for me, so I will be using that app only going forward.

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Snarkiness for a good cause

This is an organized effort of goodness, knitting and snarkiness and it makes me so happy. Countess Ablaze had a colorway called If I want exposure, I’ll get my tits out. It was a lovely, intense variegated pink and purple color. And, someone copycatted it. So, she decided that the only way to deal with copycats was to ask other dyers if they wanted to do their own version (with a part of the proceeds going to charity).

I love this idea and I am here for this kind of collaborative work.

Folks also created patterns, project bags, and stitch markers. It is an exciting page, I recommend giving it a click-through.

I had some birthday money (my birthday was last month) and so, I bought a few skeins of yarn and three patterns to go with them. (The other way around, really. I bought the patterns and then picked yarn to go with them). I am very excited about my future knitting. There are some seriously fun colors and patterns on that link, go check it out!

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That isn’t what I meant

On Saturday, I was working on my boneyard shawl. As I was knitting, I was admiring to pooling of the colorway. I got so excited about it and I said out loud, “I can’t wait to be done!” I was near the end of the first skein and I got the second skein out so I could transition to it.

I started with the new skein… and then I stopped. My second skein is a different weight.

Well, I feel silly now

So, I’m kicking myself that I picked up two skeins of different weights for the same project. How did I not notice? But, I’m also irritated with the yarn shop. I picked up two skeins that were right next to each other on the display and then the shopkeeper wound the skeins into cakes for me. So, she also didn’t notice that I had picked up two different skeins. Or, maybe, while we stood there talking about potential patterns for the shawl I said I was going to make with the yarn, she thought I had done it intentionally. I don’t know.

So, I had to decide what to do. Do I try to get my hands on another skein in the same weight (when I bought the original yarn from a (not to me) local yarn shop and it is dyed by an independent dyer) or do I frog back a repeat and make a shawlette?

I decided to frog it back. So, I’m going to finish this project this week. But, this was not what I meant when I said I wanted to be finished with it.

I now have a second skein that I have to decide what to do with. I might make a hat or a pair of socks. They’ll probably be short socks, though. Any suggestions are welcome.

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Squash Blossoms

For a few summers in Buffalo, I had a CSA and so I have developed a nice set of recipes for cooking squash. I’ve also really come to enjoy eating it. I didn’t have a lot of squash growing up, it just wasn’t something my parents cooked, so it is something I’ve only really eaten as an adult. I am very excited that my squash plant has started to blossom. I am growing spaghetti squash for the first time. I thought about also growing zucchini (and maybe if I see a zucchini plant on sale, I still might put one in very late in the game) but I thought spaghetti squash would be better in the fall.

My first squash blossom!

I also have another blossom on my eggplant and new blossoms on one of my tomato plants and my cucumber plant. Two of the pepper plants of buds and so I’m hopeful about that. There has been a lot of rain in the area recently and the plants have all really soaked up the water. The kale is getting big enough that we can start harvesting some of it.

I am really thrilled at how well the garden is looking.

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For all the ways my phone helps, it also doesn’t help

The thing with needing help to avoid distractions is that I don’t only need them when I’m trying to work on something tedious or something that I don’t want to do, I also need it sometimes to help me focus on things I do want to be doing. Today, I tried to to do this by leaving my phone at home.

I had lunch with my parents on Friday at the Cedar Rapids BBQ roundup. My Mother, who was driving us to the festival, did not approve of me leaving the house without my phone.

My Mother: You need your phone
Me: Why? No one ever calls me. And, even when they do, I don’t like talking on the phone so I rarely answer.
My Mother: but, what if we get separated.
Me: We’ll pick a spot to meet and we’ll just meet.
My Mother: But, what if we can’t find you.
Me: It’ll be okay, I’ll turn up at the meeting time.
My Mother:…
My Mother: *turns car around*
Me: I remember a time before cell phones when we’d agree to meet a place at a time and we would go our separate ways and it was fine.
My Mother: Really
Me: Yes. We’d be at the mall and you’d say meet me at a time and a place and we’d be free to wander the mall by ourselves. I was significantly younger then, too.
My Mother: If you say so.

So, I brought my phone. But, nobody got lost. Or, had to call anyone. We did, in fact, separate and meet up at an agreed upon location. I thought about running the forest app while we were at the festival because I didn’t want the distraction of everything on my phone (email, texts, pokemon, etc). Sometimes it is just so hard to focus.

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Butterflies are a theme for the week

Butterfly, checking out the kale

We had a butterfly visitor to our kale over the weekend. It landed, checked out the scene.

Butterfly, trying to get comfortable

Ginger kitty got nose to nose with it, trying to make friends. It was really cute. (The butterfly was not interested in being Ginger Kitty’s friend.) This inspired me to get the nymphalidea out and knit a little on it. I have been trying, not very successfully, to put in the time to get at least one repeat done every week since I started it. This isn’t a lot of knitting because one of the sections is short rows, but lace requires you pay a small amount of attention to it. So, I’m happy to report that I’ve gotten two repeats done this week.

One more repeat on this beautiful wing

I’m really liking the pink and greens together. Since I’m using leftovers from previous projects for the pink, I’m trying to alternate between them so that there aren’t chunks of one color and then the other. This means I’ll have some ends to weave in, but that’s acceptable. One of the pinks wasn’t the weight that I thought it was, so this shawl may end up smaller than I had originally intended. It will still be beautiful, though.

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In which we say good bye to one of our own

Lovely Lily

When I brought Lily home in 2009, she hid under the bed. I introduced her to Cooper briefly. They crept up to each other and sniffed. One of them hissed. Then, the other one hissed. Cooper then slowly backed out of the room. I thought, “Welp, these two are certainly meant to be mine. I think that’s the politest ‘fuck you’ I’ve heard in awhile.” They came to like each other, even if they didn’t always act like it.

a debut album cover

Cooper once vomited on Lily during a ride to the vet. She wasn’t even bothered. She just gave his head a little bath and sat quietly with him. That’s what kind of cat she was. She would sit quietly with you when you needed it.

She loved a good snooze

I imagine that over the next few weeks and months, my instagram will be flooded with stories of her, as she really touched my life. She took a turn for the worst yesterday morning and we said good bye to her in the afternoon. I am so grateful for the time I got to spend with her. She was a wonderful cat.

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Backyard Babies

Planting things is always exciting, but it’s followed by a period of intensity where you monitor them, hoping they’ll take to the ground. I’ve been going out in the evenings and checking on the plants. Until this past week, we hadn’t gotten a ton of rain, so I’ve been watering them. The kale, broccoli and swiss chard are under an overhang, so they’ve had to be watered every day, even when there is rain. This pleases Ginger kitty to no end, as he gets to go outside when I’m watering the plants.

I’m really happy with how the plants have taken. I have new kale leaves and baby broccolis. (You can see, in the photos, that I’ve also been sprinkling coffee grounds outside when I have them and I haven’t been super careful about how I’ve sprinkled them.)

Broccoli, doing its thing

I have blooms on my tomatoes, cucumbers, and eggplant. I can’t tell you how pleased I am that I this eggplant is blooming. About eight years ago, I went a couple of seasons trying to raise eggplants and this is as far as I’ve gotten. Hopefully, this season, we can move beyond the bloom. I think this plant is getting more sun than previous plants. I feel very hopeful about the whole enterprise.

One beautiful eggplant bloom

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In which Silver Kitty goes to the hospital

Silver Kitty is sick and is in the hospital. She’s having some digestive issues. These are issues she’s had before; this is a flare up of a chronic illness. On the way back from the hospital, we talked about her course of treatment. One of the first things she had to undergo today was an enema. She’d probably be annoyed that I’m writing this, if she weren’t a cat.

Silver kitty on a stool above a brown floor

You’d think I just told her Santa wasn’t real. Instead, I told her she needed a to have an x-ray

While discussing her treatments, we tangented off into a conversation about cleanses. A few years ago, a friend of mine did a cleanse where she ate nothing but apples and gave herself nightly colon cleanings. She had very clear skin following her cleanse. I can’t say it really did anything else for her. I did the leek cleanse from French Women Don’t Get Fat. I did not last the full 48 hours. I get very mean when I’m hungry. Also, I find it hard to concentrate when I’m hungry, which is a huge problem since I make my living doing things that require concentration and focus.

I thought about cleanses while I was watering my plants this evening. I really enjoyed reading French Women Don’t Get Fat. I remember liking the book when I first read it, but I can’t say that I remember much of the details, aside from the boiled leeks and a recipe for chicken cooked in champagne. Thinking back on it now, I feel like the answer might be obvious and may not rest entirely in the individual choices of French women compared to the individual choices of American women. I feel like the French have built their cities and towns in a way that walking is easy way to get from place to place (and a socially acceptable way). I feel like they’ve also invested in mass transit and universal health care. Perhaps the French have easier access to fruits and veg. All of those seem like things that we do together as a society and not things we do individually.

This is something I would like to think on more, but right now I’ve got a sick cat to worry about.

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One more row

I started a new shawl this weekend, even though I had a perfectly lovely shawl already started.

The cast-on

I wanted something that wasn’t going to require a lot of concentration. Saturday was World Wide Knit in Public Day, and I wanted to take my knitting to the movies (saw Ocean’s 8. Definitely would recommend.)

The first few rows

But, I also wanted something that I could work through quickly and feel like I was accomplishing something. There was a lot of bad news last week, with Kate Spade and Anthony Bourdain’s suicides, and I just didn’t have it in me to be in the inevitable online discussion of these two losses. I needed to sit with my feelings and work through what I was feeling and thinking away from the public response. I needed a distraction. This yarn is from the indie dyer Inked Sheep Fibers in the colorway troublemaker and the pattern I am using is Boneyard shawl by Stephen West. I didn’t pick this pattern on purpose, for any morbid reason. I picked it because it’s a 12-row repeat of stockinette stitch, with minimal increases that are done at the edges and around the center (which is marked). Once I got going, I just had to count to 12. No big deal.

The first repeat

Most of my thoughts ended up being about society as a whole. Have we created a world that is good for us? Do we have strong communities? What does it even mean to have a strong community? What could I be doing? How have I failed? Can we have a macro-level conversation about systemic issues that make mental health hard to look after or mental illness unbearable without implying that people with mental illness aren’t themselves doing enough? How do we make space for healing? How do we support that while fostering an understanding that “healing” isn’t the same as “curing”? [

The second repeat

I think the beginnings of that are already out there. There are people working to end mental health stigma. More people are coming out and discussing their illnesses publicly. Beyond the discussions of the individual celebrities and loss, the general discussion about suicide and mental health is something we need more of. And, it would be great if we could do that outside of a death. And, maybe we’re getting there.

The third repeat

By the end of the weekend, I had knit quite a bit and ignored quite a lot. To be honest with you, at some point on Sunday, working on this project veered into avoidance and away from self-care. There were things on my weekly checklist that should have probably been seen to on Sunday. But, I keep coming back to some ideas that were in my head this weekend. Like, do we recognize reaching out when we see it? How can we can better at that? How can we make our support more easily accessible? How do we lower the barriers to access to resources that support people’s health? What would a society that supports the health and well-being of its members look like?

It’s even pretty on the wrong side

Looking at the knitting I did this weekend, I have to laugh. Some people knit every stitch with love, I knit, it would seem, every stitch with a question.

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